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From the Pen of Rabbi Fine October 2008

Rosh Hashanah – the Birthday of the World

I don’t know about you, but the first thing I do when I receive my new desk diary is to fill in the dates of the birthdays of my children and grandchildren. The joy on a child’s face on his birthday is something to behold and it takes us back to memories of our own childhood.

So why is it that as we get older, we begin to dread birthdays? Why do we feel such a heavy weight with each passing year? But as a great man once said, “Birthdays are only significant when your life isn’t.”

Birthdays remind us that another year has passed. If, during that year, we have grown spiritually, if we have lived meaningful lives, if we have a clear picture of where we are going and are continuing on our journey of spiritual awakening, the our birthdays are not going to shake us up. They will either pass uneventfully, or be felt as a happy day to reflect on how good the year has been.

However, if we really feel are lives are not on track and our job is basically going nowhere, then our birthday reminds us that during the past year nothing has changed and maybe nothing ever will. Then we surely don’t want to be reminded of our birthday .

When we were children, birthdays made us feel special because of external factors – ice cream, part hats and presents. But as we grow older, birthdays only make us feel special if our lives truly are.

What is Rosh Hashanah?

Rosh Hashanah is the birthday of the world and the spiritual birthday of every single human being.

The depth and spirituality of life presents us with profound challenges and expectations. If we have lived up to our expectations during the past year, then Rosh Hashanah is a happy day. However, if we have not met the challenges presented to us, then Rosh Hashanah can be a terrifying experience.

That is why Rosh Hashanah can be perceived as a day of judgement, although in truth, it is a day of spiritual awakening. If I have worked on awakening spiritually, if I have done my spiritual homework, the Rosh Hashanah will be easy. It is my birthday and I want to make an accounting of what I have achieved. This is the judgement of Rosh Hashanah.

But most of us don’t want to be judged. We also don’t want to judge ourselves. But we need to know that the judgement is being done with love. G-d is saying “I love you so much. I have such high expectations of you. And I know you can grow more, expand your horizons more.”

On Rosh Hashanah there are two films being played in the heavenly cinema. On e film shows what we have done in the past year. And the second film shows what we could have done. The closer they match each other, the better. When they match, they are heaven. So our hope is that our films match each other – and that we give each other the strength to live up to the grand hopes that life holds out to us.

And by the way – Happy Birthday!

Rabbi Yisroel Fine



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